Archive for the ‘Ceremonies’ Category

Circular Ceremony Seating

Friday, February 20th, 2009

There’s nothing worse than being stuck in the back rows of a wedding ceremony where one’s only glimpse of the wedding party takes place during the processional and recessional. The rest of the ceremony is usually spent staring into a man’s bald spot or a woman’s elaborate hat and straining to hear the mumbling wedding officiant. The solution, unfortunately, does not involve height-specific seating schemes — which short people like myself tend to favor for obvious reasons.

Wedding ceremony seating

Instead, if your ceremony venue allows it, why not ape this unique wedding ceremony seating arrangement designed by Colin Cowie for a beautiful wedding that took place at the Beverly Hills Hotel. Of the design, Cowie says:

…rather than using the traditional set-up seen so many times before at the Beverly Hills Hotel, I chose to reinvent the ceremony area by creating two intersecting aisle ways, with a ceremony in the middle of the aisles and guests seated all around. The focal point of the ceremony being a square center arbor decorated with a cuff of Vendela roses and backed with a fringe of hanging lime green amaranth, created a very tailored Art Deco look.

Yes, yes, Vendela roses and Art Deco aesthetics. That’s all very well and good. I’m more enamored by the fact that in this ceremony seating scheme, wedding guests of all heights can find a seat that allows them to snap a few photos of the bride and groom without having to elbow aside the couple’s immediate family.

“I… Brrrrrr… Do” *Shiver*

Wednesday, January 21st, 2009

The always handsome mkb sent me a link to this exceedingly cool wedding photo:

Ice chapel wedding

And when I say cool, I mean cold.

After being pronounced husband and wife, Michael and Sigret Cook — they’re the ones in the wedding finery, obviously — exit the ice chapel custom built for their wedding on Christmas Day in Fairbanks, Alaska. That’s right, they had an entire ice chapel built just for the wedding.

The temperatures outside were hovering below zero – it wasn’t much warmer inside – but it was the perfect culmination to a whirlwind, Florida-to-Fairbanks romance that was sparked by a chance meeting on the Internet.

Ball had asked Cook to build her an ice chapel for their wedding “Lots of people get married in chapels. I will be the only one married in this chapel,” Ball said.

The chapel occasionally emitted groaning noises during the wedding, making some of the guests nervous. Terry Martin, who officiated the wedding, reassured the guests that the ice structure was sturdy as he led the wedding ceremony.

No one built me an ice chapel for my wedding (I didn’t even get a regular chapel!) but after reading about the groaning of the ice, I’m not sure I would have really enjoyed the experience.

LOVE/HATE: The “Make a Run for the Bathroom” Edition

Thursday, January 15th, 2009

Remember the Waffle House wedding? How about the McDonald’s wedding? Now we have the Taco Bell wedding to go with it. Paul and Caragh Brooks said their vows and then partied down at Normal, Illinois Taco Bell where they apparently spent a lot of time hanging out.

The deets: The entire shindig cost about $200, with Caragh’s hot pink dress eating a mere $15 of the total. A friend who bought one of those easy online ordinations conducted the wedding ceremony when it turned out city hall was all booked up for the day. Wedding guests ordered food off of the regular menu. The groom’s mother, Kathy Brooks, had this to say: “This is the way to go – there’s no stress.”

Taco Bell Wedding

I LOVE it, absolutely. Caragh and Paul obviously know what they like and what they like is Taco Bell and low-key fun. They planned and enjoyed the wedding they wanted, or as they say in the fast food industry, they “had it their way.” What say you? Love it? Hate it? If you’re not sure, there’s a short video of the couple on their wedding day below the cut.

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LOVE/HATE: The Very Friendly Skies Edition

Wednesday, December 24th, 2008

Unusual wedding venues… some say no, I say yes.

wedding in an airplane

Getting married on an airplane like Brazilian bride Eliete Ferreiraand her Portuguese groom Jose Santos… well, if you can ignore the lack of leg room, those horrid little packets of dry roasted peanuts, and the ever-present stale coffee smell that pervades the cabins of all classes of airliner, that’s your choice.

Would I do it? Nope. But what say you?

Ring Cushions and Flower Baskets By Muscari

Monday, November 17th, 2008

Flower girl baskets and ring bearer pillows…baskets and ring pillows…when it comes right down to it, there aren’t that many options out there for the non-DIYer. It’s not that there aren’t cool crafters making awesome wedding accessories, rather it’s that the mass-produced generic ceremony accessories get so much more play than the one-of-a-kind stuff.

That just means you have to look a little harder if you want your wedding ceremony accessories to stand out. EasterYu is on Etsy and Muscari, fighting the good fight by creating unique flower girl baskets and ring cushions out of birch wood, seashells, artificial moss, miniature birds, and velvet.

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Hint hint: She also makes fabulous boutonniƩres and lovely hair pins created from beautiful feather flowers.

Prices for everything from baskets to boutonniĆ©res range from $7 to $50, and you can’t beat that!

Be Inspired By the Great Poets…Like Dr. Seuss

Sunday, July 13th, 2008

Wedding vows. These are the words that bind a couple in marriage. Some couples take comfort and inspiration in repeating the same words their faith has been using for generations upon generations. Others prefer to strike out on their own to create something uniquely personal. Each approach has its benefits and drawbacks. The decision is one I wouldn’t dream of attempting to make for you, but I will give one piece of advice: consider carefully before doing an original set of marriage vow verses in the style of Dr. Seuss.

The gentleman who wrote these vows was saddened by the fact his bride refused to use them. While I think the parody is clever and oddly charming, I must admit I can understand the lady’s choice…but if Mr. Twistie ever expressed a willingness to have a vow reaffirmation ceremony, I might just keep this on file for such an occasion. Your mileage may vary, but I found this bit both funny and quite sweet:

Pastor: Will you love her when you’re fit,
And also when you’re feeling sick?

Groom: Yes, I’ll love her when we’re fit,
And when we’re hurt, and when we’re sick,
And I will love her when we’re rich
And I will love her in a ditch
And I will love through good and bad,
And I will love when glad or sad,
And I will have, and I will hold
Ten years from now a thousandfold,
Yes, I will love for my whole life
This lovely woman as my wife!

Certainly nobody could question the commitment of a groom who expressed himself so forcefully and completely on the subject, could they? I do wish the bride’s version of the vows had also been included.

Whatever words you choose to express your vision of love, comittment, and family, choose them with care. These are words that should stand the test of time…ten years from now a thousandfold.

Be as crazy as you want to be

Thursday, July 3rd, 2008

I’m sorry to say that even though both The Beard and I would have liked to have had a bounce house at our wedding, we did not include it in our budget. Even after my mom told us that we should get one — there would, after all, be kids at the wedding — we still didn’t seriously entertain the idea. It just seemed so…silly.

Looking back a year later, I rather regret our decision. Look at how much fun the bride and groom in the snapshot above are having…and if that’s not a genuinely superb photo op then I don’t know what is. Plus, how many opportunities will I have in the future to rent my very own bounce house? Perhaps none!

The point is, if you’re contemplating doing something goofy at your wedding but you’re afraid of what people will think, forget about popular opinion and throw caution to the wind. As a friend of mine once said, no one ever tells the bride that the wedding sucked. There will always be people who will look askance at your choices — the gluten-free cake, the electric purple wedding gown, the dunk tank, etc. — but it’s not their wedding, and if they have the gall to share their negative opinions, they’ve just shown you what sort of human beings they really are.

While circumstances may force you to make certain concessions, you shouldn’t ever have to subdue your personality!