Archive for the ‘Dresses’ Category

From the Kodak to your ceremony with ease

Monday, March 6th, 2006

Reader A Student suggested I talk a bit about which of the many lovely and brilliant gowns at this year’s Oscars might make good wedding gowns. Looking over various photos of the event, it occurred to me that since shades of white are popular this year, quite a few of the gowns were already wedding ready. Of course, most were either strapless, sausage-casing tight, or low cut, so the aforementioned weddings would have to be of the less religious variety. Anyway, here is a selection of gowns that I think would easily fit right into a nuptial setting:

Look at that shine

Jennifer Garner in Michael Kors

Vintage yet contemporary

Reese Witherspoon in vintage Christian Dior

A little tight for my taste

Nicole Kidman in strapless Balenciaga

Folksy yet elegant

Diane Krueger in an Elie Saab strapless gown

Now there was one more actress who brides-to-be might want to look toward for advice when choosing their gowns…except, in this instance, as a shining example of what not to do. Yes, it’s Givenchy. But I don’t care who designed it. Naomi Watts looks like she’s wearing what I’d end up with if I tried to sew my own gown. Ladies, let this be a warning to you:

GOTT IN HIMMEL

1985? Or 1895?

Thursday, March 2nd, 2006

The eighteen nineties or the nineteen eighties?

Being that I was fairly young in the 1980s, I love to make fun of the decade as a whole. Come on, high waisted, tapered leg pants? Giant hair? The off-the-shoulder flashdance look? When it came to wedding wear, many brides wanted that Princess Di, Victorian look. The ivory satin and antique lace gown above is, as stated, actually from the 1890s, but could, with slight modifications have fit right into the 1980s.

Of course, such a gown can come with complications, as Phyllis points out in her wacky wedding story:

The scene: Mid 1980s…..it was a sweltering July day in Connecticut, and I was dragged to this wedding by a co-worker who needed a date. There was ZERO air-conditioning in the church and it was easily over 100 degrees – plus it was a gigantic Catholic wedding with a full Mass – a 60 minute ceremony, easy….

In those days the height of bridal fashion was the pseudo-Victorian gown with a very high neck, leg o’ mutton sleeves and so much beaded Alencon lace that brides resembled piers coated with barnacles. The headpiece fashion of the time was a sort of Flashdance headband-halo thing that resembled those cages that spinal injury patients wear. Plus Big Hair. This bride was all of that.

So she comes down the aisle amidst 300 people fanning themselves with the wedding programs. Then she strides up to the alter, takes her grooms hand – and faints dead away.

She (naturally) spent most of the reception pissed off.

Questions of tone

Monday, February 20th, 2006

Creamier than the original

While there is no one gown or style that will please everyone, I think we can all agree on the fact that the year’s new warmer whites benefit almost everyone. Few people look good in stark, glaring, antiseptic white gowns – though the contrast is gorgeous on dark-skinned brides.

It’s a question of tone. While ivory is great for redheads and ruddy-skinned brides, it may do little for those brides with darker or more yellowish complexions. Electric whites (another way of describing those whites that are white like a piece of new printer paper) can make pale ladies like me look washed out and grey. Champagne whites look simply fabulous on brides with darker complexions. Warmer whites make the skin look fresher and more youthful on many people.


Beau Coup
has a wonderful (and short) guide to choosing the color of your gown. The advice is sound and can help future brides choose a dress that will highlight her beauty rather than detract from it.

Stark White: The brightest, crispest white you can find. Looks great on dark skin.

Silk, Diamond, or Natural White: A shade off of stark white, though it looks pretty much the same in photos. “Eighty percent of the population looks best in a soft, diamond-white dress, which isn’t as chalky as a white-white,” explains dress designer Melissa Sweet. “When in doubt, buy diamond white.”

Ivory: Also referred to as “eggshell” or “candlelight.” Some ivory dresses have yellow undertones, making them look creamy; some are just a “quiet” white.

Rum or Champagne: A white with pink undertones that looks nearly white in photos.

If your skin is fair: you’ll look best in yellow-ivories and warmer natural colors. You should probably steer clear of stark white, though — it may wash you out.

If your skin is medium with pink undertones: opt for creamier colors.

If your skin is medium with yellow undertones: try diamond whites or champagne.

If your skin is dark: lucky you — most shades of white will complement your skin. If you have yellow or olive undertones, though, stay away from yellow-ivory dresses. Try stark white or rum pink.

For those curious, the dress above is from the Amsale Blue Label Collection, and features an all lace sheath with a scalloped V-neckline and bias flared hem.

Modest yet sexy

Friday, February 17th, 2006

Now where\'s the prince?

Ever since one of ya’ll prompted me to look into more modest gowns, I’ve totally been digging on the new spring gowns from Eternity Gowns. Um, the bridal collection, that is. The evening gown styles they offer get a little wacky. Anyway, today’s gown can make you feel like you just landed the starring role in The Prince & The Showgirl. I love this charmeuse mermaid under gown with sheer beaded lace overlay. The ribbon accents are wide yet subtle enough as to not make wearers look too abundant. And the whole look is completed with a short train that allows the bride ease of movement.

Love!

Putting the mod in modern

Friday, February 10th, 2006

Saying iDo in style

Need something ultra space-age in which to walk down the aisle? Maybe something you can plug your iPod into? The lovely Shannon from BITTer-GIrL and Xan from Art of Xan have designed just the thing. For Seamless V2, the second annual technology and fashion immersion event in Boston, they created iDo, which sports an iPod Shuffle in the veil and a full-sized iPod in the dress itself. The dress was described thusly by the creators:

…the iDo gown takes the so-called Bridezilla where she seemingly wants to go: her very own solitary walk down the aisle, with full control over music only she can hear accessed using touch-sensitive fabric technology … and a tiara with built-in iPod.

I only wish I was that creative!

Dressing: For guests

Wednesday, February 8th, 2006

Totally with it

I’m pretty jazzed because my aunt is getting married in Florida this month and I’m actually going to be able to attend the wedding. Once flight information was worked out, it was time to start thinking about what I was going to wear. What I was going to carry. And, of course, what I was going to wear on my feet. I’m thinking of wearing a dress I wore when acting as a friend’s maid of honor a few years back. The dress looks very much like the one pictures in this post. Except the dress has skinny straps instead of a halter and is more purple than red.

Anyhow, before I chose a dress, I called my stepmom to inquire as to what time the ceremony was being held and the general level of formality. The answer: Formal to semi-formal. Then I asked about my aunt’s wedding colors. It wouldn’t do to show up in a dress that was too close in color to the wedding party. The answer: Red and yellow. So I’m safe.

Not many people think about proper wedding guest attire. It used to be that the invitation would give some clues as to the nature of the wedding. Nowadays, not so much. As for the wedding I’m attending, I was invited by phone. Tsk tsk. Anyway, About.com has some wonderful guidelines for wedding guests who want to look their best. Here are some highlights:

Start off with the invitation. Is it in flowing engraved black script on a heavy cream paper with formal language? Odds are the wedding will be similarly formal. Does it cheekily ask you to come see them get hitched? Wedding guests should look for a nice casual outfit. And of course, it may tell you directly on the invitation – black tie, casual attire etc.

Don’t wear:
White. (This rule has relaxed some, and you can get away with wearing a printed dress with a white background and some cream colored clothing. Just be careful not to upstage the bride.)
Black to a daytime wedding
Jeans – duh
Anything too sexy or revealing
Anything torn, with holes, stained, too big or too small for you!
Anything sleeveless or strapless to a religious wedding. Bring a wrap to cover your shoulders.

Wedding guest style for her:
Informal Daytime: Short dress or suit (business attire OK for morning weddings)
Informal Evening: Cocktail dress
Semi-Formal Daytime: Short dress or suit
Semi-formal Evening: Cocktail dress
Formal Daytime: Short dress or suit. Hats and gloves optional.
Formal Evening or Black-Tie: Long or dressy short cocktail (beading, glam accessories, wrap)
Ultra-formal or White Tie: Long gown, extra glitz (furs, diamonds, etc.)

I’d add that one should consider the predicted indoor and outdoor temperature, because I’ve frozen my butt off at plenty of weddings. And how long you can really last in those heels. And what sort of people the bride and groom are. Some families won’t mind you showing a little skin. Others will look at an exposed ankle and gasp in horror. My dress is sleeveless, so I may want to invest in a nice wrap for the occassion. Oh, and I’m going to wear sassy heeled boots…because I like to create a stir.

A little something about flower girls

Wednesday, February 1st, 2006

Ring of ultimate cuteness!

So. Flower girls. I always thought I’d have one in my wedding, but now my sisters are all too old to fill that role without sticking little attitudinal fingers down their throats and saying, “OHMIGAWD, BARF!” or whatever it is the kids say these days. The Beard’s neice could always fulfill that role, provided we get hitched in the next few years, and I could dress her up in a cute Us Angels sleaveless organza dress. Anyway.

Flower girls are a nice way to include your dreamy-eyed little sister, neice, daughter, or whatever in your wedding. They are usually between four and eight years old, which is fine, because their only job is to walk down the aisle scattering flowers or flower petals in their wake. They are by no means mandatory and the choice to have one is entirely up to the future bride and groom.

But as much as we grownup types love ooh’ing and ah’ing over teeny tots in frilly dresses, the future flower girl may need a little instruction and a lot of encouragement to help her become confident in her role. If she is adament about not being a flower girl, don’t force her. But if she’s reluctant yet curious, there are some books and videos that can help her understand her duties.

10 Neat Things About Being a Flower Girl

10 Neat Things About Being a Flower Girl shows little girls their role and the significance of weddings in general with lots of beautiful photos of people of various cultures tying the knot.

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Wedding Kids, on the other hand, is suitable for both flower girls and ring bearers. It tells little ladies and gentlemen what to expect and how to conduct themselves using fun-to-watch cartoons.