Archive for December, 2006

Pulling double duty

Thursday, December 21st, 2006

An easy way to get around the need for both place card holders and wedding favors involves combining the two. Pretty pewter picture frames can hold cards with guests’ names. As can some stylized candle holders, though I, for one, would be nervous putting paper so close to fire.

Mountain Woods Recipe Card Holder

Here’s another cute idea for couples that love to cook. Mountain Woods recipe card holders can hold place cards during the wedding and recipes forever after. I would not say no to one of these if I were a wedding guest…as someone who bakes frequently, I can appreciate the value of recipe cards that do not get soaked in splatters of egg yolk.

The F-word

Wednesday, December 20th, 2006

No, not that f-word. I’m talking about fat. While I much prefer terms like ‘plus-sized’ and BBW (big, beautiful woman), there are those people out there who want to take back fat. And some of those people, I discovered yesterday, are brides! While playing peekaboo around the wide world of blogs, I discovered The Fat Bride Project, a user-contributed blog. While there haven’t been any posts since late November, the group has 21 members and I hope to see some more posts soon.

The last post, authored by Carrie, brought up a good point:

They said that the most important thing a “full figured” woman could do was find a dress that fits…even though its tempting to want to go for the smaller size, you’ll look better in a dress that fits! Because, you know, fat women can’t choose clothes that fit them if left to their own devices…The second piece of advice, where an a-line dress! It covers up those “problem spots.” Not that I am not a fan of the a-line, but just to hide half your body? Sadness. The third and final piece of advice, pick a dress with sleeves or get a shrug. Coverage is key!

My opinion? If you want to hide it, hide it, and if you feel like flaunting it, flaunt it. Whatever size you are.

Proving there is no need to hide

You can’t tell me that the model wearing this beaded schiffli lace and satin gown doesn’t look fabulous. Sorry, you just can’t!

Which just goes to show ya that there are plenty of BBBs (that’s big, beautiful brides) out there who would much prefer a Blushing Bride artisan tea gift pack or Autobiography of a Fat Bride: True Tales of a Pretend Adulthood (a really funny book) this holiday season than a copy of Bootcamp360 for Brides: The Few, the Proud, the Fit.

Not your mama’s lace

Tuesday, December 19th, 2006

So, the AP tells me that lace is back in for brides. The question weighing on my mind, however, is whether it was ever really “out.” Sure, you didn’t see a lot of lace gracing gowns, but those who dreamed of walking down the aisle in lace were not denied their pleasure. Luxury lingerie designer Claire Pettibone knows lace and it shows in this Chantilly lace and silk charmeuse empire silhouette gown.

Just about as fem as you can get

And there’s more at her web site, which features a limited selection of gorgeous gowns embellished with beautiful lace!

From the AP article:

The classic white lace-adorned bridal gown emerged centuries ago, supposedly first in France, on Anne of Brittany, when she married Louis XII in 1499. It later was popularized by Britain’s Queen Victoria, in the mid-19th century, and has been a favorite ever since.

As a fabric, designers says, delicate lace is surprisingly adaptable. It can be used in a classic silhouette — Badgley Mischka’s cap-sleeve gown in sheer Chantilly lace, for example, with a chiseled bodice and lace godets at the hem to give the dress volume — or something edgier: perhaps designer Melissa Sweet’s “patchwork” lace dress, a collage of seven kinds of lace.

Lace became standard in bridal attire in the 19th century when it was wildly popular in all of fashion, according to Valerie Steele, director of the Museum at the Fashion Institute of Technology in Manhattan.

“People were crazy for lace. … People really knew their lace. You could tell handmade lace from machine-made lace. That’s all gotten blurry now,” Steele says.

The popularity of machine-made lace — no matter how good it was — might have led to lace’s decline around the turn of the 20th century by degrading its value.

In addition, fashion moves in cycles; while lace was part of the “delicate and peekaboo aesthetic” of the 19th century, the 20th century quickly embraced a more revealing look, eschewing lace for bare skin. And fewer people had maids and servants to hand wash the lace, Steele says, leading it to fall further out of favor.

Maybe this means a touch of modesty is coming back into fashion? One can only hope.

Really, really old fashioned

Monday, December 18th, 2006

Even if you’re not serving huge turkey legs and bowls of ale at your reception, you can still dress like a princess. Your loved ones may look askance at your larger-than-life bustle, but there is no reason at all why you shouldn’t articulate your old, old, old fashioned sensibilities on your wedding day.

It\'s not old. It\'s a classic.

The Tudor gown you see here was crafted from silk satin by Fashions In Time. It features an embroidered, beaded chiffon overlay and a separate chemise with long, gathered organza sleeves. The skirt opening and hem are edged with detailed gold and pearl roses, and the center of the bodice is trimmed to match. Plus, this gown is made to a bride’s measurement and customizable, so you’re not limited in terms of color, cut, or hem. For $1,500 and up, that’s a good deal. Don’t miss the other gorgeous gowns, like this wonderful Edwardian number.

Want to go all out? Make your champagne toast with a pair of pewter knight wine glasses!

Knight Pewter Wine Glass Set of 2

An enlightened proposal

Sunday, December 17th, 2006

From the Philadelphia Inquirer comes a sweet tale of a man who couldn’t decide how to propose, a string of Christmas lights, and three hours of frustration as said man endeavored to figure out why the damn string of bulbs kept blinking. Okay, only kidding about that last part. Maybe. Charlie Warner of West Berlin (NJ, that is) never mentions in the article whether or not he had to make an emergency trip to Wal*Mart for more lights.

Warner, 32, a special-ed teacher for Lenape Regional, only put his marriage proposal in lights on the roof of the house he shares with his girlfriend, Ashley Lees, 23, and their 21-month-old son, Brandon.

A couple of Fridays ago, Lees went out with her family, and Warner got out the ladder. When he fired up the display, cars stopped, and occupants began hollering, “Yes, yes, I will!”

His girlfriend’s was the answer that mattered. On her way home from her family excursion, “she looked up and saw it and got all excited,” he says.

Now if I could only figure out how to finegagle The Beard into hanging lights in our apartment windows!

Fly, sail, or blast away

Friday, December 15th, 2006

Screw the silver. Poo-poo the pots and pans. And say so long to sheets. The Big Day Travel reminds us that “part of the honeymoon is the most romantic, memorable gift you could ever give.” Whether or not that’s true doesn’t take away from the fact that almost everyone likes taking a fantastic holiday.

But those airmiles and tours are expensive, which is why The Big Day lets gift-givers purchase a fraction of the airfare or a single outing. Alicia and Daniel, who no doubt enjoyed having this much control over their wedding gifts, said,

“People like to put together little package gifts; like dinner and a bottle of wine. Or a room and a bottle of champagne. Adding little gift plumpers for $20 lets people put more thought and personality into the gift – so don’t hesitate to include the small, quirky stuff!”

If you’d rather not leave your honeymoon to chance, however, why not charter yourself a private yacht? Yes, that’s right, I said private yacht. Ed Hamilton & Co. will hook you up with a boat, a crew, a loose itinerary, and, of course, cocktails. Before you embark, the nice people at Ed’s will send you a booklet in which you can record your food and drink preferences. These are then used to create a custom menu for you and your new spouse.

Space is hellsa sexy.

But let’s not forget that space is now an option. If you and your lawful honey have about half a year and $40 mil to spare, you can celebrate your nuptials on a Soyuz spacecraft that takes you to the International Space Station. Um, provided you are healthy enough to pass a number of taxing physical tests and intellectually flexible enough to learn Russian.

When the happy couple does get up to the ISS, the question of privacy will arise. Since they will have been transported by the Russians, it will be up to our friends at Moscow’s mission control to provide the necessary private space. The Soyuz capsule and its service module are probably too small, but given what generations of teenagers have been able to accomplish in the back seats of cars this may not be out of the question. If the decision is made to use a space station module careful preparations will have to be made. It will be interesting to hear how the ISS partnership will plan for this.

The sustainable bridesmaid

Thursday, December 14th, 2006

Friend and reader Sterlingspider, with whom I’ve been discussing corsets, recently sent me a link to Faernyn’s Grove Sustainables. Yes, they have bridal corsets…really nice ones, in fact. But they also have a small selection of dresses and today I want to talk about those.

Check this out:

I think I\'m in love. With the dress, not the model, mind.

Wouldn’t this A-line jade green formaldehyde-free silk piece make a gorgeous bridesmaid dress? It’s practically making me salivate. What’s sustainable about it? According to the web site, every design listed is produced with at least 70% sustainable textiles and, additionally, every design has a 100% certified organic fabric option.

Now, to shift topics to your least favorite topic and mine, holiday shopping. If you happen to know someone who, like me, is fascinated by corsets, I can’t recommend The Corset: A Cultural History by Valerie Steele and Fetish Fashion: Undressing the Corset by Larry Utley highly enough. Both are absolutely stunning!